A fantastic mini-essay by Amy De'Ath has just appeared online. I shan't attempt to summarise it, as you can read the thing yourself
here.
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If it’s possible that the other is a poem, and a poem-other that issues from me (that is, ‘my-self’, who is also born of you and any number of signifiers in the minds of others), what happens between me and a poem? "
Be good to one an' other.